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Mia Yim Details Her Horrific Experience Surviving Domestic Abuse, How Shelton Benjamin Was There For Her

Mia Yim Details Her Horrific Experience Surviving Domestic Abuse, How Shelton Benjamin Was There For Her

Mia Yim Details Her Horrific Experience Surviving Domestic Abuse, How Shelton Benjamin Was There For Her

Mia Yim Details Her Horrific Experience Surviving Domestic Abuse, How Shelton Benjamin Was There For Her

Mia Yim Details Her Horrific Experience Surviving Domestic Abuse, How Shelton Benjamin Was There For Her

Mia Yim Details Her Horrific Experience Surviving Domestic Abuse, How Shelton Benjamin Was There For Her
Mia Yim Details Her Horrific Experience Surviving Domestic Abuse, How Shelton Benjamin Was There For Her
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On the latest edition of the Chasing Glory podcast, Mia Yim discussed having to deal with domestic abuse in 2014 and 2015 from the man she was with (who she noted was also a wrestler) and how Shelton Benjamin was there for her. Highlights are below.

On how the domestic abuse started: “I moved to Florida for him. And to me, it was like, ‘OK, I can be in Florida for him, but then there’s also WWE, TNA, I’ll be able to pursue my dream better, I can get a job here.’ So I moved down here in about 2013 and the first couple of months was great, but it always is. There were flags there, and it sucks because even though me and my sister, we’re really close now, but we were OK back then, but like my sister, my dad, my mom, they were just like, because I’ve met him once, and then we talked all the time, so I didn’t really, but this was only within like, couple of months. So they could see the flags, the stuff that he was saying and the stuff that he was promising, they could see the flags, and they’re like, ‘You’re an adult, you can make your own decisions, but this is not healthy, and we just want to let you know that this is not right.’ And of course, me being stubborn, was like, ‘It’ll be fine, I’m going to live happily ever after, it’ll be fine.’ So the first couple of months was great, there were flags everywhere. It always starts out small and gets bigger and bigger. It was the arguments that turned into being called different names. The competition between our careers. I was doing more traveling, I had the WWE tryout. I was just about to get into TNA. These different things. My opinion, I felt like, he probably felt like he was in competition. So, he would bring me down mentally at first, verbally. Ya know, I’m not good enough, and why would I ever sign there, and why don’t you bring me there, stuff like that. So it was that at first, and it became, during an argument, I remember the first time, I was drinking a protein shake, and then he slapped the protein shake out of my hand and then put me in a headlock, like a real headlock. And after that happened, I’m looking around, and I’ve never been in that kind of a situation before so I didn’t know what happened, but the first thing that I did was to clean up the protein shake. So I immediately just start cleaning and as I’m cleaning, I’m like what just happened. So I’m trying to make sense of everything but it still, I’m like I know this is wrong but he loves me. Apologies happen, it’ll never happen again, the whole cliche, the whole generic crap. And I believe him.”

On how the abuse escalated from there: “And then it just became more consistent and became more extreme like there was a point where I got locked in a closet. There was a point where I hurt my knee at a show so it was kind of tender, and he, I got pushed against the wall and he kneed the inside of my knee. So it just became more consistent.”

On how the abuse continues to impact her life: “It changed me as far as, when things start to escalate as far as voices are being raised and stuff, I would automatically get into defense, I’d back up against the wall, squaring up, just to be ready for something. Which, sucks because there’s still some things now that I’m trying to break habit of but there’s still some things now that I’m trying to work on as far as the changes that was made in that situation. Little things like that. Anytime I’m arguing with someone, I’m automatically thinking I’m going to get hit so I’m already on the guard. And there was a situation I remember, after him, I was dating someone else, and we started arguing and I immediately started squaring up and he was like, ‘What are you doing? Are you going to hit me?’ I was like, ‘No, I’m not going to hit you but I’m not going to just sit here and get hit and not do anything.’ It’s things like that that make me realize that this is not normal. I adapted to having to survive at home to my life now. And it sucked.”

On Shelton Benjamin being there for her while she was in her abusive relationship: “I remember Shelton [Benjamin], who is my brother, he’s my big brother, I hate saying it out loud, I love him so much, because we have this thing going where we always pick on, it’s big brother little sister tussle, just online we always go at each other, but he’s my big brother, and I love him so much. He pretty much offered up his home for me the minute he found out, immediately he was like I’ll get you a plane ticket, you get out of there, I got you. And at this point, I wasn’t ready yet. So I told him everything was fine, but he knew. My family didn’t know, I hid it from a lot of people, but Shelton, my best friend Blake, they knew the changes. I’ve known Shelton, pretty much since the beginning of my career. So when both Shelton and my friend Blake, they are both men, but I’m close with them, but I was not allowed to talk to them, I was not allowed to be friends with them, if they were to text me, I would have to send it to my boyfriend at the time to make sure it was appropriate. And then me and Shelton were just having a regular conversation just through text and he flips out, and he’s like I don’t want you to be friends anymore, he’s trying to get with you. So I sent him a long text, of course, ‘Hey, we can’t be friends anymore, just can’t be friends with you.’ And so Shelton, knowing something was up, didn’t know what was up, but something was up, he respected that because he didn’t want me to deal with more stress, so he backed off, but it was comforting to know that he would still just randomly be like, ‘Hey I’m still here for you, I’m still here for you.’ This was before he knew anything. He just knew my ex was controlling and possessive.”

On how she tried to fight back against her abuser: “I would fight back, I’m not guilty of fighting back, but as a guy, he’s always going to overpower me, so I tried.”

On when it clicked that she couldn’t stay in the relationship: “I remember he cheated on me with one of my then friends, found out about it, and would still accuse me of cheating, and then would take it out on me. And that’s when I was like, something just clicked, to the point where I knew this wasn’t love. We were living together at the time, and after being locked in the closet, I legit had to break out of the closet to get out of there, there was a point where he pushed me on the bed and there was a towel, and so I fell on the towel, and then he wrapped the towel around my neck and started choking me, so it was never, which is what I tell everybody, I would never have a black eye or I would never have anything you could see, but it would always be choking, or locked in the closet, or something like that, headlocks. So it was at that moment where he’s choking me with the towel and then the only thing I could do or even like think of is to gouge his eyes and that’s when he got off, and then he got mad at me for doing that. That’s when it was like, you know what, it just all clicked at that point. You’re cheating on me but you’re accusing me of cheating on you constantly. I can’t have any friends. I barely talk to my family anymore. And you’re treating me this way? I’m not doing this anymore. And especially since I was starting to get real momentum in wrestling. You’re not going to be the reason why the police is going to call my parents telling them that their daughter passed away. So I finally left.”

If using any of the above quotes, please credit Chasing Glory with an h/t to 411mania.com for the transcription.

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10 Greatest IWGP Heavyweight Champions

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One of the most prestigious championships in the world of wrestling today, the IWGP Heavyweight Championship has been held by just 29 wrestlers over 69 individual reigns since its inception in 1987.

With four generations of title belt since then and reigns both great and small, the IWGP Heavyweight Championship has been a fixture of main event wrestling classics for decades. Often regarded as the most prestigious and sought after prize in all of Japanese professional wrestling, the IWGP crown has also attracted the interests of various international challengers over the years, many of whom have become legends in their own right.

From original champ Antonio Inoki, the founding father of New Japan and one of the most accomplished names in wrestling history, all the way to current title holder Kazuchika Okada, the current ace and lead star of the promotion, let’s take a look at the ten finest champions in the history of the title and what made them so great.

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Eric Bischoff Discusses Infamous Backstage Fight Between Vader & Paul Orndorff, How Difficult Vader Was Backstage

Eric Bischoff Discusses Infamous Backstage Fight Between Vader & Paul Orndorff, How Difficult Vader Was Backstage

On the latest edition of 83 Weeks, Eric Bischoff talked about the controversial backstage fight between Vader and Paul Orndorff, leading to Vader being suspended without pay (and eventually released) by WCW for instigating the fight. Vader would then go to the WWF. Dave Meltzer reported at the time that Orndorff egged Vader on, an account Bischoff took issue with. Highlights are below.

On how difficult Vader was to work with: “He was not an easy person to do business with. Not that he was unique in that respect. There were a lot of people that were difficult to do business with from time to time. Name one that wasn’t, especially one that was at the top, where the pressure is more difficult, politics are more intense, the money is more meaningful. Everything becomes much more intense when you’re at a level like Vader was, or Ric Flair was, or Sting was, or Hogan. Macho Man. You name me anybody that’s been been at the very top of this sport, or this business I should say, they all have their moments. Steve Austin. I think you’d have a hard time finding anybody that was a power player at that level who wasn’t a pain in the ass from time to time. Leon probably, maybe a little more so than some of the aforementioned top talent. He was moody, he was a very emotional guy, he could be the sweetest, kindest, most gentle, teddy bear of a human being you’d ever met, one minute, and twenty minutes later, it was like he was possessed by somebody else. He was a difficult guy to do business with.”

On when he was told about the backstage fight between Vader and Paul Orndorff: “Dave Meltzer wasn’t in the locker room and didn’t witness the incident between Vader and Paul Orndorff. And by the way, neither did I. So, for Dave to suggest that Paul egged it on, I think is typical, but not necessarily accurate. When I got the call from Janie Engle [talent relations at WCW], who was very close to Paul, we’ll let it go at that, I was at a meeting, TV had already started at Center Stage, I was on my way to the building, I had been at the office so I was running about 45 minutes late or an hour late, and on my way I get a call from Janie and she was concerned because she was afraid how I was going to react, and she was legitimately concerned that I was going to fire Paul. So she, and I would trust, and have trusted, Janie Engle with my children’s lives, they call her Auntie Janie to this day. And when my kids were little, and Laura and I would have to go out of town for business or whatever, Janie would stay at the house and take care of the kids, so she was a part of the family. She was as honest, is, as honest, as the day is long. So when Janie called me and told me what happened, and how it happened, if there is anybody in the industry, in the world for that matter, that I would believe at face value, even to this day, it would be Janie Engle. No matter how she felt about Paul, no matter what their relationship was, she would tell me the truth. So when she laid out the scenario to me, I took it at face value and I believed her.”

On who he believes started the fight: “I think Dave’s reporting, once again, was completely wrong. I’m sure someone fed him something and he just ran with it because that’s what he did and still does to this day. But it wasn’t accurate. Paul didn’t egg him on. Paul didn’t take any shit from him. Again, I wasn’t there, I didn’t see it, but as the story was relayed to me, I think it was Vader who was trying to bully Paul and Paul wouldn’t back down. And by the way, Paul had nerve damage to one arm, he was wearing a pair of flip-flops, he wasn’t in the best of health, but Paul Orndorff was a man’s man. He wasn’t going to back down from anybody, including Leon White, and didn’t. And the rest is history.”

On why he released Vader from WCW: “Yeah, we did let him go. I kind of felt like it wasn’t going to be a fit. And I did talk to Leon afterwards, we met in Minneapolis, I think in September of 1995, we had met with Leon, and I talked to him, and I just let him know, the chemistry isn’t there. It just wasn’t going to work. And that was the end of it.”

On if he ever regretted releasing Vader: “No, I never thought about it. Look, I wasn’t as mature then as I am now, I didn’t have the experience under my belt like I do now. But even then, it was like, once you make a decision, you make a decision and you move on and don’t look back. Don’t regret it, don’t worry about it, don’t think what if, or what could have been. It’s just not my nature. And it wasn’t even back then. So once a decision was made, and I probably was even more convinced I was right when Leon went to WWF and kind of crashed and burned there as well. Not because he wasn’t a talented guy, I just think emotionally he was for whatever reason, he was kind of at his wit’s end.”

If using any of the above quotes, please credit 83 Weeks with an h/t to 411mania.com for the transcription.

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